Wednesday, November 4, 2009

The Short Days

So many of you that I visit have been talking about the darkness of Autumn and the coming of Winter. This was in my email this morning and I thought I would share it with you.


7 Happy Rituals for the Short Days of Winter
by Christine Kane

Each year, when we turn the clocks back, I am torn.

On the one hand, I'm elated to get some extra sleep and "gain" an hour. On the other hand, it's a little sad to know that winter is coming, and the days are getting shorter.

A few years ago, I noticed that I was rolling with the change of season much more gracefully – and without the same dread I had often felt. It was around that time I learned to create rituals in my days. Seasons, after all, show us what our lives are meant to be: dark times, light times, expansion, contraction, and of course… change!

If you are experiencing anxiety or sadness as winter approaches and the days get shorter, I invite you to try one or two of these rituals. Maybe you'll start to look forward to the earlier evenings as you see the mystery and magic of this beautiful season…

1 - Create a Glow

The great thing about darker evenings is that they allow for the perfect candle lighting ritual. Create a sacred space in your home and light candles at dusk or when you get home from work.

Some of my favorite candles are antique medicine bottles I've picked up at various flea markets over the years. I fill them with candle oil and wicks. The glass reflects the flame for even more glow! I'm always on the look out for simple candles and holders. (A quick resource for all kinds of candles is TJ Maxx.)

2 - Start a Gratitude Journal

It's the season of Thanksgiving, so why not begin the habit of gratitude now, rather than waiting til the end of the month?

Get a beautiful journal and commit to completing your day with gratitude. Start with a list of five things. Write in as much detail as you can.

We live in such lavish abundance, yet it's so easy to speed through the days without noticing. A gratitude journal will change your life!

3 - Feed the Birds

Wake up to bird song!

One of my favorite rituals is to make sure that the bird feeders are chock full of the best seed possible. Our feeders always have visitors, so we keep a guide to birds near our back door so we can grab it any time we spot a new species. We have regular visits from nuthatches, chickadees, flickers, titmouse, all kinds of woodpeckers, Carolina wrens, bluejays – we've even seen rare birds, like the hooded warbler. Spend some blissful time witnessing the pure joy of our feathered friends! (A great resource for bird-feeders is Wild Birds Unlimited.)

4 - Catch Up on Movies

Winter is a great time to catch up on those movies you missed in the theaters. I keep a list in my iPhone, and any time someone recommends a movie, I take note. That way, when I get to the video store, I have a reference. You can also get great television show seasons on Netflix.

5 - Morning Work-Outs

When the clocks turn back, the mornings get lighter. Why not take advantage and wake up earlier to hit the gym? Start a fitness ritual. Exercise has been proven - over and over again! - to remedy everything from disease to depression. Hire a trainer for a month and learn some new exercises! The fitness habit will lift your mood like nothing else!

6 - Complete a Project

Remember that idea you had for a scrapbook? Or that language learning series you've been meaning to plunge into? Well, now's the time!

Winter is a perfect time to learn a new craft, create something meaningful, and get lost in the joy of a new project. Winter is also the time to go inward and lose yourself in creating. What have you been meaning to create?

7 - Get Out!

Any dog will tell you: Winter is a fabulous time to hike! It's cold. It's crisp. You bundle up in layers of polar fleece. And you get to experience the hidden treasures of a season that most people avoid.

Make it a point to find some trails or paths near your home. Then, commit to bundling up and spending time outdoors each weekend. There's rarely anyone else out - so you get to have acres and acres to yourself. (Though you might bump into me and my dog! It's our favorite hiking season!)

Performer, songwriter, and creativity consultant Christine Kane publishes her 'LiveCreative' weekly ezine with more than 4,000 subscribers. If you want to be the artist of your life and create authentic and lasting success, you can sign up for a FRE*E subscription to LiveCreative at


Sheila said...

What a nice post loaded with good ideas!

sherry ♥ lee said...

Snap, this was just what I needed...I'm one of those people who doesn't look forward to winter and feels the darkness...I can definitely pick up a few of these ideas to help me move into a different direction with my thinking. Perfect timing!! :)

Alicia @ boylerpf said...

All great suggestions to welcome the long days of winter! The hardest part for me is having it turn so cold. It just means bundling up more...I can only imagine how the little brids feel like outside!

Sharon said...

Well Ms. Snap I do love this post. Great ideas and I shall be following a great many of them. Thanks so much. Sharon

Janie said...

Great ideas for encouraging a look forward to winter season!

Sarah said...

Oooh wonderful post hon!! I must be weird! I love this time of year... I love lighting the candles and pulling out my knitting..the short days and long nights..looove them!! I know I'm odd!! Hugs hon, Sarah

Kim Mailhot said...

Thanks for sharing this Snap ! Some wonderful ideas - some of which I have been doing kind of instinctively, which means maybe my heart and soul knows how to handle this change of season much better than my mind does !
Still have to say that Winter is definitely NEVER going to be my favorite time to hike - regardless of what Chica thinks !;)
Big hugs, lovely One !

Lissa said...

Great post! as for me I look forward to the change of season. it gives me hope that maybe we'll have a winter! Then again, it's like spring or early fall to every one else. A perk to being a FL gal. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I am counting down the days until Christmas, as I have been promised that Santa is bringing me " wired" internet access. Then we can truly get back to being blog buddies:)

Crafty Christina said...

Great ideas!!!

Miss•Elena•Eous said...

Absolutely wonderful post! I will definitely do all the things you said. They make me happy just thinking of them :)

The Bodhi Chicklet said...

As mentioned, my memory is such that lighting candles is a danger. But I did think that I should set out my birdfeeder again. Thanks for reminding me!

McGillicutty said...

Mmm wonderful ideas and getting out is a MUST!!!
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KarenHarveyCox said...

Oh, I just love this list of things. What a great post, and I especially love the idea about the candles, making those dark nights a bit brighter. When my girls were little, we used to make bird feeders out of birdseed and peanut butter and hang them in the trees. Sounds like a nice tradition to begin again.
Have a great weekend.

sherry ♥ lee said...

Just wanted to let you know I am really getting into the candle's so comforting!! :)

Maria-Thérèse said...

Well, I try, I do those things (apart from hiking) but it's just so dark to not see the sun at all. I need to make lots of money so I can go away for a while during winter, I think.