Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Self-Care


As you can imagine, with everything that is going on in my life right now -- Mr. Dragon's surgery, the hospital stay (he may be home by the weekend) -- 9 Bodacious Ways to Practice Self-Care Really got my attention! Enjoy!

9 Bodacious (and Easy) Ways to Practice Self-Care
by Christine Kane
Just as there was a time when "google" was not a verb, there was also a time when "bodacious" was not a word. Bodacious is a blend of "bold" and "audacious" created in British English dialect late in the nineteenth century.

I love this word! Some days we need to be bodacious! And some days, we need to remember to apply it to our own self-care.

No matter how rewarding or noble it is to be of service to others - whether you're a coach, in retail, or taking care of an ailing parent - you cannot leave your self-care out of the picture. If you do, you'll soon burn-out, become ill or angry, and you'll ultimately be serving no one.

Here are 9 bodacious ways to practice self-care:

1 - Flowers!
This is so simple – and yet so powerful. Fresh flowers beautify any space. I always have an orchid on my coffee table. I see it the minute I walk in the door, and it reminds me to take a deep breath and cherish the beauty of my life. Create a Sunday ritual of getting fresh flowers to get your week off to a bodacious start!

2 - Take a nap.

Favorite thing: I climb into bed for a nap in the middle of the day. Within minutes comes the soft ploop of cat paws on the cover. I can almost hear the cat thoughts: Hmm. The human has decided to lie quietly. I'd like to take part. Then the paws walk all around me until they find the very best spot for settling.

Cats know the truth: Naps are bodacious!

3 - Pay full price.

The amount of energy we waste on trying to get "deals" is often not worth it. If you see something youlove, then get it. I'm convinced that we'd all be so much happier and wealthier if we just got exactlywhat we loved without looking at price tags and wasting time looking for sales. (We'd probably have much less stuff too!)

4 - Trampolines and swings.

I was at a cocktail party last year. The adults were up on the deck watching the kids jump on the trampoline. At one point, all the kids ran inside. I kicked off my shoes and ran for the trampoline. Three other women joined me. We laughed and jumped for about 15 minutes. It was the most fun I'd had all week.

Swings are fun, too. And they're easy to find! Who cares if you look or feel stupid? Being an adult doesn't have to mean being boring!

5 - Truncate your To-Do's.

How many items are on your to-do list today?

32?

20?

67?

A day should have no more than two or three mission-critical priorities for completion. The rest are extra credit! Give yourself the gift of completion. It is the ultimate self-care.

6 - Order out.

I love preparing meals. But some nights, it's just necessary to let someone else do the cooking. We have a great delivery service in our town. I don't mind the extra expense if it allows me a night of no clean up, and a little extra time to write or just be with my husband.

7 - Take a long walk with your dog.

Are you one of those people who gets home from work and marches your dog around the block with a grim look on your face? (Another to-do item checked off the list!)

Try this: Take your dog for a long happy walk. Revel in the delight and presence of your dog. It will absolutely lift your spirits.

8 - Read for fun.

Do you relish your days on the beach because it's the only time you'll allow yourself the joy of a trashy novel or some "light" reading?

Why not get a little bodacious and bring the beach to your work-week? Curl up at night and get lost in some fun fiction.

9 - Step AWAY from the computer. (And the phone.)

The challenge of this internet world is that we are "plugged in" 24/7. You are reachable all the time now. No one waits for "business hours" anymore. This is not healthy for your precious creative spirit, my friend.

Take regular breaks from Facebook, blogs, texts, cell phones, and email. (Yes, even this eZine!) Don't include your computer in any of the above activities. And turn off your phone, too! I promise, your computer and phone won't take it personally! (Neither will this e-Zine!)

Performer, songwriter, and creativity consultant Christine Kane publishes her 'LiveCreative' weekly ezine with more than 11,000 subscribers. If you want to be the artist of your life and create authentic and lasting success, you can sign up for a FRE*E subscription to LiveCreative athttp://www.christinekane.com/.
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7 comments:

dosfishes said...

Great post, great great list, thanks for sharing. Glad Mr. Dragon is doing well and hope he IS home this weekend.

xo

Diva Kreszl said...

very good advice, all of it!

Barb said...

This is bodacious advise, Snap - I especially like the flower one. Today, I rode the carousel at the Zoo with my little Grands - bodacious FUN! I'm sure glad Mr Dragon is soon coming home from the hospital. (Order take-out!)

Crafty Christina said...

Great advice. I've learned stepping away from the phone is absolutely HUGE for me. Take good care of yourself, my friend!

Kim Mailhot said...

Read the article yesterday morning - bought myself flowers in the afternoon (glorious bright orange tulips !), took an hour to read some trashy vampire novel for fun, and even ordered in supper last night. I think I am getting the hang of this self-care thing ! ;)
I hope you do too, lovely Snap. Prayers and love to you and Mr. Dragon.

KarenHarveyCox said...

I stopped by to learn how Mr. Dragon was coming along. I love your bodacious list. It is true that the caregiver has to take good care of herself. Stay well, and I keep you and Mr. Dragon in my prayers.

Karen

Garden Lily said...

What great advice! The hardest ones to do are the ones which would really liberate - for me, paying full price, and getting away from the computer! I've subscribed to the e-zine, for more reminders like this.