Thursday, January 1, 2009

Resolutions and Links

Let's start with the links. Every now and then I visit a blog or other internet site that I'd like to share with you. This picture is the top of THE GOOD JAR at The Lettered Cottage. Layla loves the cottage look and she also has a shop. She put this jar together (just 20 of them), filled them with 365 fortune-cookie sized slips of paper, each with a single, simple thought about something you could do everyday to feel happy. Go check her blog -- Layla is lots of fun.

I love the Collage Diva site. I visit with Kathryn daily. She is starting 2009 with a prompt called "Weaving Our Dreams" for Soul Journals.

Finally, I'd like to share an email I received from the DailyOM. I've shared other emails with you from them, but this one really hit home -- especially as we start a new year.

December 31, 2008
New Year's Resolutions: The Two Lists
A Message from DailyOM Co-Founder Scott Blum

I was fortunate to spend time with an enigmatic man named Robert during a very special period of my life. Robert taught me many things during our days together, and this time of year reminds me of one particular interaction we had.

"Now that you are becoming more aware," Robert said, "you need to begin to set goals for yourself so you don't lose the momentum you have built."

"Like New Year's resolutions?" I asked.

"That's an interesting idea," he smirked. "Let's do that."

By then I was used to his cryptic responses, so I knew something was up because of the way his eyes sparkled as he let out an impish laugh.

"Tonight's assignment is to make two lists," Robert continued. "The first is a list of all the New Year's resolutions you WANT to keep, and the second is a list of all the New Year's resolutions you WILL keep. Write the WANT List first, and when you have exhausted all of your ideas, then write the second list on another sheet of paper."

That night I went home and spent several hours working on the two lists. The WANT List felt overwhelming at first, but after a while I got into writing all the things I had always wanted to do if the burdens of life hadn't gotten in the way. After nearly an hour, the list swelled to fill the entire page and contained nearly all of my ideas of an ideal life. The second list was much easier, and I was able to quickly commit ten practical resolutions that I felt would be both realistic and helpful.

The next day, I met Robert in front of the local food Co-op, where we seemed to have most of our enlightening conversations. "Tell me about your two lists," Robert said as the familiar smirk crept onto his face.

"The first list contains all the things I SHOULD do if I completely changed my life to be the person I always wanted to be. And the second list contains all the things I COULD do by accepting my current life, and taking realistic steps towards the life I want to lead."

"Let me see the second list," he said.

I handed him the second list, and without even looking at it, he ripped the paper into tiny pieces and threw it in the nearby garbage can. His disregard for the effort I had put into the list annoyed me at first, but after I calmed down I began to think about the first list in a different light. In my heart, I knew the second list was a cop out, and the first list was the only one that really mattered.

"And now, the first list." Robert bowed his head and held out both of his hands.

I purposefully handed him the first list and held his gaze for several seconds, waiting for him to begin reading the page. After an unusually long silence, he began to crumple the paper into a ball and once again tossed it into the can without looking at it.

"What did you do that for?!" I couldn't hide my anger any longer.

Robert began to speak in a quiet and assured voice. "What you SHOULD or COULD do with your life no longer matters. The only thing that matters, from this day forward, is what you MUST do."

He then drew a folded piece of paper from his back pocket and handed it to me.

I opened it carefully, and found a single word floating in the middle of the white page:


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Pat - An Arkansas Stamper said...

I was fascinated by the OM letter. The teacher was very, very wise!

Vintagesquirrel said...

Happy New Year to you. Thanks for stopping by my blog and offering me good wishes with my recovery. I hope you continue to feel well this year.

The Bodhi Chicklet said...

Happy New Year to you, Snap! I love finding things on your side bar - thanks for sharing. Hope to see you with your CED. I will go and check out Layla's site now. Busy, busy this 2nd day of January!

Sharon said...

Powerful OM! I will be thinking about that all day. Thank you so much for visiting me. I am trying to get caught up now and begin the New Year. I am so happy you enjoyed the mail art. I love doing it. 'Expect' great things in 2009!